This is me and my son Josh talking about our experience of living in Domestic Violence…
A little bit of my own story and some help and support for you if you are living it right now..
Oh God today is the dreaded day; the day that I have decided to leave my violent relationship and move into another house! I am not feeling scared as I have lived like this for a few years now and have conditioned my body and mind to be in a constant state of anxiety and anger. I know today may be the last day on this earth for me once I leave, however I feel that if he does murder me then my pain will be finished and I won’t have to go through with it. Read more »
You know when I am talking on stage to my audience’s, one of the key topics I talk about on the road to success whether business, fitness, family, fun whatever it is you are wanting to achieve your dream goals one of my favourite topics is “commitment”….
The reason I touch on this topic is because SO many people want to reach their ultimate goals and they start out all excited and on fire, but then they come across a challenge and they wake up and see it’s going to be a 30 degree day so they think “oh screw it I’m going to the beach today, I’ve worked hard so I’m going to take a well deserved day off”, now I know there are A LOT of people out there claiming to build a multi million dollar company by sitting on the beach in your jocks but that’s not how I grew my business so I can only share with you my real true experiences. My reality was in the first 3 years of business; NO wage, NO holidays, NO long weekends, NO time to take a sick day, NO beach days and when the kids were sick they came to the office with me, I had to work work work every single day!! Read more »
*disclaimer* the words chaos and drama are overused but i got a little passionate writing this blog LOL
There comes a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. It’s realising you don’t need certain people and the drama they bring- Author Unknown
When I was living in a chaotic world full of drama, homelessness and low self worth, I had lots of company in my misery. People would call or visit every day to hear all about the latest disaster I had created. My life was like one of those awful TV series; my fans couldn’t wait for the next episode and I was the star of the show. When I eventually decided I’d had enough of this life and was ready to create my dream life and pursue my passion, my daily drama episodes stopped and my fans dropped away.
I had created an addiction drama, I couldn’t keep still; I was constantly anxious and ready for the next drama to erupt.
Growing up in a home environment where there was constant chaos, and then having a baby at age sixteen where there was even more chaos and then living in a violent relationship where the chaos was now unmanageable; it’s a feeling that can become quite addictive. The adrenaline you feel from the chaos you live is almost like being on drugs. Read more »
Helllooooooo my friends… Well today is the day, the day that I have procrastinated on for so long to get this blog out into the big wide world. I have no other excuses for the delay other than I just didn’t want to commit myself to another weekly task, however I feel I have too much to share for it to stay inside me; I mean imagine if I died with all of my learning’s inside me, that would be such a shame LOL!!
Let me just introduce myself and my blog so that you get a glimpse of me and what I will be writing about.
Firstly I am NOT A PROFESSIONAL WRITER, I make mistakes and LOTS of mistakes, I sometimes swear and I sometimes talk about issues that most people in society don’t and won’t talk about; you know the TABOO topics such as; child abuse, depression, suicide, domestic violence, teenage pregnancy etc BUT I also talk about AWESOME topics such as; dreams, visions, business, creating positive lives, helping your children, goals, health, happiness and LOADS of positivity. Read more »